i am happy that you could share that chapter of your life (not happy for what happened just happy you could share oh i am no good with words but what i mean is that i think if you can share it with other people you are becoming stronger than the pain and if your can talk about it i think soon it will no longer hurt you so much idk how to explain it i am a feelings person oh god i am just happy for you because you are overcoming the bad good is stuff nice and !!!!
but... i am really happy you could get this new job and that things are going well for you now... i can only imagine how hard it were for you. i always thought it was bullcrap, until that rainy day came and all my life changed: i used to think that when elderly people said that after the storm the sun shines again they knew nothing about what a twisted mind and such a wreck of a person could be, but it IS true, after all suffering and depression and thinking there is no place for you in the world at all and feeling alone and despised and feeling you should die, if you can overcome all that with a little bit of perseverance and a great deal of patience (specially with yourself) you can definitely do it. i too had some problems with drugs and depression and such, i think we really are alike (beyond the mature people issue lol) (and maybe you are a pisces) but you were stronger than suicide and i am very happy and why not say proud too because not everyone can survive it. you were very strong to keep on living and come here again and write all you wrote... i am also very happy that you could find such a wonderful person that could help you so much. sometimes we can only rely on others because somethings we cannot do only by ourselves right? and you are wonderfully lucky to have this person!! and it is definitely not weird of disgusting! you will offend me too if you say such a thing!! (lol) i think it's only natural to do that, we are human and we make mistakes but by doing so we learn and learning is what keeps me alive up to now, the curiosity about what comes next? if i used to think my life was over and now i came to discover it isn't, what amazing discoveries are coming next? i think like that.
i am not surprised about what you said, we know human beings have this whole dark background behind them and if we were to judge and be surprised about everyone we know we would be already dead because of a heart attack! we can never expect, just observe...
you did not have the courage to do that, but you have the courage now to do something much more difficult, and that is to live and suffer more and more and learn more and more and be more and more happy too. i myself tried to put an end to this all a few times, and now i am so happy it did not work out because if i had i would never be able to know that even if you think so, you are never alone. aren't we talking right now? i think it's good
LOL i too had some issues with my family, so i can only agree 100% that when people fight they should consider those who are around them as well. i didn't at the time lol
i think i know what it's like to be in the dark and cold and humidity and creating a mushroom farm, but if you have all this people who care about you in here, i think you are doing very well!
congratulations on your strenght and i admire you who could get out of the dark and head towards a bright future! that's the hardest and i know a lot people cannot do it.
thank you!! let's do our best always!
ps: go couple mini project go!
Edited by domino2000, 27 February 2015 - 08:08 AM.