Situation: You join a SOD with your cleric. There are already 4 more people there: Cleric, Knight and Bourgeois/ Champ.
Seeing that there's no slower and the Knight is dualing with his cleric. He only buffed his knight (not others) and left the cleric at the base, soloed his way through xtals. Now that still sounds pretty fine as there's someone willing to tank.
You suggest his leaving the cleric in order to invite a slower (champ/ raider) and he refuse:
"I need cleric for support": Alright, you only buff you knight.
"I need high buffs": Well what do you say when you have +40 and I have +60?
"I don't need slower, I can tank": Sorry bro, not everyone has much free time, and they can barely tank. Plus, you don't use your cleric to support them.
"I'm here to earn valor." Good point, everyone does.
Well unacceptable reasons to defense himself. The dungeon ends up taking way to long, way too much death and anger to finish.
Although I could have been better if it hadn't been for his selfishness.
-------------------------------One of those situation when I don't like dualing people--------------------------------