Since sometimes I'm not a very smart people, for my SM I just copied an outdated build from the archive.
Now I see that while I'm virtually immortal for all daiy uses, my damage is quite subpar. I want to be useful in a party, but I don't want to be as strong as a spoon when I solo.
Both skills hiden in the lower part are both level 1.
I was thinking about taking 4 points from that soul something (the first skill with the long cast time and really short debuff) and invest them in soul exortion since that's really the skill that I use the most.
Then I know I'll need a higher level of cure and maybe healing skills as well. For that I suppose I can use those 20 ML skill points, but I think higher levels for mental breakdown and soul exortion are a good idea too. I've never used links consistently, so taking some points from them might be a good idea... or maybe not? I've heard other SM talking about links, so they must still have a reliable use.
The AoE skill after soulmate awaken will be gone, of course. It's no better than combining other skills.
As a side note, I've spent almost all my leveling stat points on INT. I hope they aren't wasted.