I haven't played in many, many years and I'm definitely a noob. Me and my girlfriend (who has never played before) are looking to create a duo. She chose a mage, so I figured I needed a tank. But there's a good chance she may not even like the game, so I'd like to be able to solo as well. As far as monks go, what's a good choice to tank her mage and also be able to survive solo? I'm thinking a str / vit build? Perhaps a hybrid between vit and some agi?
My main question is this: what stats should we both get, and in what order? To start off, I had her invest in vit and a little bit of dex. I'm not sure what mages use before they start casting. Str and agi are useless for her, so I figured grab a few points in vit and dex initially. At any rate we're only like level 3 so no big deal if I screwed up. I put my initial points in agi mostly, but now I'm wishing I favored vit over agi.
Should I pump str and vit and neglect agi? What should she do? Vit and dex, then start pumping int? I hear she doesn't need as much dex as I thought, as it barely reduces cast time. So she should be pumping int and just enough vit to survive? Or what?
Thanks for your help. I'm really hoping my girlfriend and I can connect over this game, as I have lots of great memories from pre-renewal 10 yrs ago.