Exactly, I stopped playing RO 2 years ago because of this, I have pretty solid equip and I even bought Infinity(VIP) 2 times (for me and my wife), but I don't care anymore because this server is so terrible.
I wrote so many e-mails to Warpportal if they could give us an European server or at least add an European channel to the re:start server, the answer was always "NO".
It's like they don't want more player and more money.
The problem with that is they would have to rent (or buy) an office in Europe some where, hire people to run and maintain it, and then people will rush from the existing servers to the new server, never mind the fact that WP would be stepping on the toes of the other official servers. It would be a lose-lose for everyone.
Instead of trying to get WP to do the impossible, why not flood the European server's "management" with complaints?